So, I was watching the local news last night, and they had a segment with “The Love Doctor.” He was a real live version of Hitch. After watching, it gave me an inspiration–Thursday will be my fabulous lifestyles day! Today, you will find juicy hints and tips about how to get a mate:

Let’s start with the ladies:
We ladies, especially those of us in our mid-20s to early 40s, tend to become desperate missiles of futile and misplaced love and devotion during our quest for the perfect partner. We all have the infamous “list” whether it be strictly in our heads or in our secret diaries. Here are few tips to advance you in the dating game:

NOTE: These are not my words of advice. They are words of encouragement from men themselves. They have come straight from the horse’s mouth…..

1. A man is always looking for his mommy, or rather, the comforts of a mother. He wants someone to keep him in line, work with him, and make him want do right BY HIMSELF (he doesn’t need your help in this area—especially the nagging type). He doesn’t need another supervisor, he needs a companion. [He WILL NEVER tell you this!]

2. Always be presentable. Don’t ever leave your house with rollers in your hair, chipped manicures, or half-done makeup. Men want you look fabulously casually, at minimum, at all times, i.e. don’t come out the house in sweats or gym shorts. If you have to come out in sweats, at least wear the Juicy Couture 2-piece warm-up…

3. Don’t overcommit your dress code. A man likes a woman who is well put together, but don’t look you spent 5 hours in the bathroom getting ready. Keep it simple and sexy chic.

4. Tone down the vamp in you. A man wants a woman that gives him just enough to whet his appetite to make him want more. Though you may think the Striperella outfit is completely necessary to find the man of your dreams, it will only attract the man of the wee hours of the morning (i.e. booty call).

5. Be nice. Be a lady. Leave your aggressive bulldog attitude at work. It may have pushed you towards the glass ceiling, but if used in the improper setting (i.e. around men that you want), it only push towards a rocking chair with attendants attending to you ’cause you annihilated all of your potential partners in your “good years.
—-in words of my dear husband, with the bulldog attitude, you may as well be a mime–the men will all see you but will not hear the words coming out of your mouth (think Chris Tucker in Rush Hour).

More advice to follow…
Create a fabulous day for yourselves!