Every now and then I like to make lists. Here is a great list to live by–to have a fabulous lifestyle with no regrets…
1. Always tell the truth. It so freeing and dissolves guilt immediately. You will find that living authentically is better than living according to others’ standards of what you should be.
2. Apologize often. If you felt you have wronged someone, don’t live in remorse due to an unspoken apology. Often times, the person wasn’t even offended and you have fettered yourself to a lifetime of penance. Open your mouth and say, “I’m sorry.”
3. Choose a style and live it. Then switch it up. Then switch it up again…basically, be the best you regardless of what our conformist American society feels you should look like. Don’t fall prey to trends that are truly no reflection of you….i.e. skinny jeans, high waisted-pants, slouchy skinny jeans, checkered scarves..
4. Say Please, Thank You, and No. Please when asking, Thank You for receiving and No for de-stressing. I am a reformed people pleaser– I truly know the value of saying “no.”
5. Laugh often and dance so hard that you sweat profusely. Go to the club in a tank top, cuts offs, and sneakers…don’t worry about the glam factor. Glisten, sweat, do whatever you need to do to dance your a** off and have a fab time…
Keep it strictly stylish!
I made the mistake of breaking #1 to make someone else feel good&i’ve lost them forever.So I am remembering my rules from here on out!