The 2009 BET awards were held last night in Los Angeles and the stars came out to shine.  The show honored the legacy of the late great  Michael Jackson…and I think that everyone got the memo to wear something in tribute to The Gloved One.  Check out the fab celebs in black, in white, and [...]

Okay, I know that it is hard to be a single ladies in these times.  And there are SO many out there–that is evident by how many times I hear Beyonce’s “Single Ladies” when a nearby cell phone rings….
If you can’t land a man, should you have casual sex like a man to get your [...]

Hello fab readers! I snagged this timely piece from Be Better Guys. Ladies, if you didn’t know, now you know! No more excuses for attracting, dating, and maybe even marrying the following types of men below:
10 Types of Guys to Avoid
Written by Mandie Green

A few months back, Ster wrote an article about the 10 [...]

Ok, so I fell off of the Finds of the Week….forgive me!  They will resume much later in the fall. Fashion Week has landed upon us and I am in a fashion frenzy… more to report later! Anyways, many of my single friends have been complaining about married men hitting on them.  My girls are [...]

Ok, here’s your latest edition of Date Doctor…it’s getting warm and I know you singles are getting hot in the pants area…so don’t muck up your first chance to make your best impression! I was listening to The Yolanda Adams Morning Show a few weeks ago and had to share these tips with my [...]

In light of our esteemed guest blogger Trina coming to dish out love and life advice, I thought it would a great time for a visit from the Date Doctor. Although the term “happily single” may sound like an oxymoron in its truest sense, it can be a wonderful thing to be single. Before [...]

Ok, it’s been a few weeks since I did a Date Doctor post, so I know some of you must been salivating for more tidbits of how to hunt ‘em down, catch ‘em, and keep ‘em….but where do you find them? For years, I have been telling my girls that they will NEVER [...]

So you got the number and are ready to make that call. Now what? Will he or she say “deal” or “no deal?”
I have been on my fair share of first dates prior to finding my dreamboat, so I have a lil’ bit of expertise in this area…
This is an example of what NOT [...]

Gentle gents, have you ever wondered: How do I know if she really likes me? Does she like me at all? How can I tell? What would she do?
Well, if those questions have been burning our brain, this is your lucky day! Enjoy…
How to tell if a woman likes [...]

Ladies, have you been turned down for sex? I mean, what able-bodied, testosterone filled, heterosexual male turns down an open and willing woman for sex? Well, apparently, many of them do…
I just read a great article in the September issue of Details magazine entitled, “He’s Just Not That Into It.” According to the [...]