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Do you remember the Justin Timberlake song "Summer Love?" The chorus goes like this: I can't wait to fall in love with you You can't wait to fall in love with me This just can't be summer love, you'll see This just can't be summer love (L-O-V-E) Summer always brings out an overload of endless flirting, lovey-doveyness, and just pure lust....and pure lust sometimes clouds our lucidity lens when the temperatures flair and the special parts of our bodies are moistened by the heat … [Read more...]
The 2009 BET awards were held last night in Los Angeles and the stars came out to shine. The show honored the legacy of the late great Michael Jackson...and I think that everyone got the memo to wear something in tribute to The Gloved One. Check out the fab celebs in black, in white, and other.... I love the back baring of Taraji's dress, but I don't quite understand the science of Medoly Thornton's dress. I know that every celeb wants to make an … [Read more...]
Okay, I know that it is hard to be a single ladies in these times. And there are SO many out there--that is evident by how many times I hear Beyonce's "Single Ladies" when a nearby cell phone rings.... If you can't land a man, should you have casual sex like a man to get your needs fulfilled? I admit that most women need an emotional attachment when it comes to sex. Although she may tell you that she can handle a no-strings attached type of deal, in reality, after the 3rd or 4th time … [Read more...]
Hello fab readers! I snagged this timely piece from Be Better Guys. Ladies, if you didn't know, now you know! No more excuses for attracting, dating, and maybe even marrying the following types of men below: 10 Types of Guys to Avoid Written by Mandie Green A few months back, Ster wrote an article about the 10 types of women to avoid. He really hit the nail on the head and gave us a big chuckle. However, in the interest of fairness (and to let guys know that we're being watched), … [Read more...]
Ok, so I fell off of the Finds of the Week....forgive me! They will resume much later in the fall. Fashion Week has landed upon us and I am in a fashion frenzy... more to report later! Anyways, many of my single friends have been complaining about married men hitting on them. My girls are single, not desperate....here's an article on how to spot the cheating louse if he tries to approach you, single girl: Seven Ways to Spot a Cheating Married Man by Judy McGuire (The … [Read more...]
Ok, here's your latest edition of Date Doctor...it's getting warm and I know you singles are getting hot in the pants area...so don't muck up your first chance to make your best impression! I was listening to The Yolanda Adams Morning Show a few weeks ago and had to share these tips with my fab peoples: Top Ten Ways to Ruin Your First Date: You don't look like your picture: On your online profile, you post your best picture---but it's from 10 years ago. Your weight, hair, features, … [Read more...]
In light of our esteemed guest blogger Trina coming to dish out love and life advice, I thought it would a great time for a visit from the Date Doctor. Although the term "happily single" may sound like an oxymoron in its truest sense, it can be a wonderful thing to be single. Before I unwittingly jumped the broom, I had a fabulous and fantastic single life...and so did my hubby. When you are alone either by choice or by force, it forces you to spend some time developing YOU. Sometimes, our … [Read more...]
Ok, it's been a few weeks since I did a Date Doctor post, so I know some of you must been salivating for more tidbits of how to hunt 'em down, catch 'em, and keep 'em....but where do you find them? For years, I have been telling my girls that they will NEVER find any good thing hanging in a club. Please believe me, if his first glance is you in a teeny weeny mini and boobage overspill, it's usually not love at first sight. On the other hand, ladies, it's almost like we are playing "Where's … [Read more...]
So you got the number and are ready to make that call. Now what? Will he or she say "deal" or "no deal?" I have been on my fair share of first dates prior to finding my dreamboat, so I have a lil' bit of expertise in this area... This is an example of what NOT to do on a first phone call before the date (this is a true story): Him: So, what do you like to do? Me: Well, I love to loiter in museums, sneak into movies for free, and excessively sample fruit and veggies in … [Read more...]
Gentle gents, have you ever wondered: How do I know if she really likes me? Does she like me at all? How can I tell? What would she do? Well, if those questions have been burning our brain, this is your lucky day! Enjoy... How to tell if a woman likes you...(thanks to Pearl Mag for the info!) 1. She compliments you on just about anything. 2. She feels nervous around you. Look for signs of nervousness such as her muscles twitching. 3. She teases you playfully. 4. She makes an … [Read more...]
